Do NOT label yourself as a victim.
Whether YOU call yourself a victim is YOUR choice.
Do not permit externals to take ownership of YOUR situation.
ALWAYS taking ownership enables YOU to be in command of every situation. [1]
Take ownership of EVERYTHING that happens to you.
This thesis may very well not be true all the time. The absolute reward of inheriting this mindset, however, will most likely be greater if you just MAKE yourself think this way.
Everything is your fault!
1. Tom Bilyeu, The Power of An Early Morning Routine, Impact Theory, YouTube, 2018 (26/10/2020)